Rob, you're a gun guy. You know, you spent a lot of time on the range, fire a lot of rounds each year. And I think that if we've got the time, the money, the organizational will, the personal will to do that, that's great. Shooting for you is not only an important part of a defensive world for you but also, yeah, you enjoy shooting. That's great, but talk to me a little bit about the value of conventional rounds or the value of non-conventional munitions. Where do you see the balance between conventional and non-conventional? For me, I think that quite often too much is made of the thousands of rounds during the year type practice, right? I happen to think that for most people that are carrying guns for personal defense or who own guns in their home for personal defense, they're not gonna go spend 10 thousand, 20 thousand, 30 rounds a year being shooters, right? They're dentists, or they're doctors, or they're housewives, they're teachers, or they're plumbers. They're other things, not just shooters. They're not defined by shooting. And I think the shooting community puts a lot of pressure or judgment on that person for not going out and spending 10, 20, or 30 thousand rounds. One of the things I think that you and I agree on is that the skill level necessary for the overwhelming majority of defensive shootings is not a 20 thousand-round a year skill level. It might be a 200-round a year skill level after some initial skill development. So I feel very strongly that initial skill development, practical defensive shooting skill development, has to be done with a real gun. I don't think you can develop shooting skill without recoil, without getting used to manipulating your gun, feeling that recoil. But once you've done that, I think the nonconventional munition, right? Whether that's the airsoft, the marking cartridge, the laser gun, or the mind bullet that shot out of the rubber gun that you practiced presenting or that you have in the ready position can be incredibly important for a good low training resource investment sustainment protocol. And most vitally, for the testing of the evaluation of your ability to apply the skills, apply those defensive firearm skills in a scenario training like you run so often. Well, that's interesting. And this is one of our great opportunities where we can disagree a little bit. Because while I agree with much of what you said, almost all of what you've said, my perception is that it could be valuable to take the different approach of using non-conventional technologies early on. In fact, the very first trigger press that my daughter ever had on a gun was with a BB gun at a skydive thing. It was, she was watching some kid shoot with a BB gun and very intent on all of this. And I asked her, "Would you like to try that, honey?" "No, guns are bad. Guns kill people. "Me and mommy don't like guns." I thought, oh, whatever, I'll get you eventually. But as the day went on, she continued to watch this kid with the BB gun and eventually said, "Well, maybe I'll try it once." I said, "Well a little short." She goes, "No, no. The BB gun." I said, "All right, well let's go ask." We borrowed the BB gun. And instead of putting her at the 25 yard line and teaching her about sight alignment, and trigger control, and breathing, and grip, and stance, and all of this, I laid her down, put the can about eight inches away from the muzzle, positioned the muzzle, and had her work the trigger. And the thing went pop, the can fell down, and big grin. "You want to try it again?" "Uh huh." And we shot again and again and again. And at the end of the day, "Would you like a BB gun?" "Uh huh." "Does mom gotta know?" "Uh uh." And she still owns that BB gun today. And what I discovered is because we have these innate fears built into us, the loud noises, the sudden approach, if we take those away early and we take away the fear of the gun so that we can build up the skill. Great story I heard one time of a Japanese or a Korean guy that came over to America for an IPSC competition. Had never fired a real gun in his life, but had probably millions of rounds with airsoft because airsoft is huge over there. He got a little bit of instruction with a conventional gun to learn to manage recoil and report, and then went and won an actual competition over here having never really had a lot of experience with the recoil and the report. One of the things that I've noticed is that training is the residue of experience. So the experiences that we have, we talked to a lot of people that have been in gunfights, things that they will constantly report is I never heard the recoil. Or I never heard the report. I never felt the recoil. But they were able to deliver accurate fire because their primary experiences were building up to that point. So that because you're not gonna hear the report and you're not gonna feel the recoil, I want that residue of experience to be successful completion. And if I can teach you with non-consequential technologies to get thousands of repetitions of accurate fire on a body with either marking cartridges, rubber guns, theater of the mind, airsoft, any of these technologies, and then once you're not scared of the gun but you already know how to shoot, now we go down to the range for a little bit of recoil management and report management so as you're not flinching so much. Then, I think that we can come at it from that approach also. So it's interesting that there's, I think, two ways to come at it, both of which need to end up with people simplifying and demystifying gun fighting and a success-based approach. Absolutely. And I think in both of those examples that you gave, I think the issue for me is training resources. If I have a lot of time and a lot of reps and there was millions of airsoft rounds, I have no doubt that we can develop some skill there. My concern is the person that wants to take the BB gun and fire 10 shots and then say okay now you're ready for the real gun and jump onto the real gun. And in my opinion, they're still just as nervous as they were. You haven't acclimated them. They're still in antagonism and anxiety for that gun to go bang. And I think that, let's make the gun go bang. Let's get the gun in your hand and have it go bang. I've got the picture I have with my daughter as she's 18 months old. And her mom is holding the safety glasses and she's got the ears on and repositioned the 12 gauge with support from my arm so that she's busting clays. And you know, it's still the same thing, getting that success. And I think that's we certainly agree on is there has to be success, facilitating that success one way or another. Whether it's the non-consequential rounds or the real rounds when it comes to physical shooting skill development. I think there are two paths. Ultimately, non-consequential wins when it comes to evaluation. I would much rather see somebody with marking cartridges or airsoft in a safe, controlled environment testing their ability to do something in context in a scenario than I would have them shoot a real gun on a piece of paper and feel like they've mastered gunfight. But I also think that your point is well taken and that we need to have a reverence for the real rounds in that if we spend all of the time with non-consequential technologies and get overconfident that real damage can be done because we don't understand the realities of what bullets can do to bodies. Bullets can do to bodies and what recoil can do to the pace of your shooting. Exactly. So a lot of the shooting and moving that gets proven with airsoft guns and things like that, well, you know, let's try that with the actual recoil. Excellent discussion and, again, very similar approaches but I think that the crux of disagreement is maybe where we both can help people understand that there sometimes is more than just one way. And as long as your way has integrity and your way is working and your way is guided by someone with some background in training, you don't have to pick, you know, one or the other and say the other one's ridiculous. I think in this case, we can both agree that both approaches are valid. Exactly. And how many knock 'em down, drag 'em out arguments have you heard about sight alignment and trigger control versus unsighted fire? There are people that want to beat each other up over all of this. You know what, the gun doesn't care. What the gun cares about is whether or not you've done the work. If you're an isosceles shooter and you've done the work, you're gonna hit your target. If you're a one-handed shooter, a point shooter, and you've done the work, you're gonna hit your target. If you're a hold the gun over your head and shoot while looking in a mirror, if you've done the work, you're gonna get the hits. But what people don't understand is that none of this is gonna occur through osmosis. You've got to do the work. You're not gonna get stronger by watching people lift weights.
Excellent theories to practice, and I may already be doing so subconsciously. I bought my 2 yo one of those cheap electronic toy guns that mimic a report and slide movement without shooting projectiles, to drill trigger and muzzle discipline. I taped a sighting target (non silhouette) on the wall and showed him to get the target in sight before putting his little fingers on the trigger, and he soaked it up like a sponge. Also got him a cap gun to better mimic the report and a nerf gun to demonstrate the idea that something comes flying out of these things once the trigger is pressed. Might have to consider getting the wife an airsoft, as she is still so afraid of messing up with a live firearm that she finds every reason in the book not to train.
My kids started with a daisy BB guns. Learning gun safety before a BB was even put into the barrel, after that, they got range time. Soon they moved up to the .22 Savage, after they were safe, and comfortable with the recoil, and moved up to my M1 garand and other weapons in my locker. Once they were no longer afraid of the M1's recoil, nothing in my locker would be too much, except my Mosin Nagant, which they still refuse to fire any more, but thats fine, its my baby after all. My 4 yo grandson started with the BB guns my daughter had, moved very quickly to the .22 Itheca mod. 90 single shot, and then my hi-point .9mm carbine. He shot 2X and three 10's with the Itheca at 25 yards, the .9mm scared him a little, not recoil, sound, even though he was wearing my best head hear. You can not teach kids early enough, safety was first, with days of holding (empty of course) barrel position, and the rules of gun safety before he even shot his first BB.
For Rob, Did I hear correctly? Your daughter fired a gun at 18 months old?
I have been working on many scenarios with airsoft/blue gun(s). They are great for improving muscle memory and having fun (as long as obey rules, such as wearing goggles, etc). And ok, very cheap too. I can even shoot target(s) from 15 m with cheap toy airsoft with a very quick draw. However there are many things that you cannot practice with airsoft, which matters a lot in a real scenario. Let me say a few of them; 1. trigger pull is not the same (*** No sir, you cannot train yourself as a sharp shooter) 2. generally replica has the weight of an empty gun 3. Cheap materials used which cause many stupid things that you cannot encounter in real gun, and vice versa (You cannot experience real malfunctions) 4. You do not need to clean it at all, or properly clean. (however real gun - real dirt) 5. it makes you better and more dangerous (it might be a bad for may normal people because it does not give you option to wound the attacker. You fire at head and/or heart...) 6. many more other reasons... In summary, blue gun/airsoft/other methods are just only complements of education of real guns. So they never be used instead of real gun practice/education. Adding scenarios makes this matter just much more complex which is another debate. Regards.
very good points made all around. My son Got me a Airsoft pistol for Fathers day after we had been talking about the expense and scarcity of rounds, we are now able to shoot at the house, I was amazed by the accuracy and speed of the airsoft pistol. We have purchased blackhawk holsters to boot.
Very excellent points made. Before I took my wife shooting for the first time, I taught her about proper grip. Then I coached her on trigger control, then sight alignment. Then I had her pit it all together and dry fire a bunch of times. After she was comfortable with the mechanics of shooting a pistol. then I explained the recoil to her. I explained what was happening, what to expect, what it would feel like and how to manage it. When we finally got to the range, I put her target about three yards out and she outshot me.
Very thoughtful discussion.